Monday, December 10, 2007
Food Friday: Pull-Apart Bread
My daughters made this bread last weekend. I did some minimal supervisory actions. This is a fantastic activity for the 2-and-older set, and the bread actually tastes great. The recipe comes from this month's RealSimple Magazine.
Easy Cinnamon Bread
2 1-pound packages refrigerated pizza dough
1 tablespoon cinnamon
1 cup sugar
8 tablespoons (1 stick) butter, melted, plus more for the pan
Heat oven to 375.
Tear off small bits of the dough and roll them into 1- to 1.5-inch balls. Place balls on a plate.
Combine cinnamon and sugar in a bowl. Dip each ball in the butter, then in the cinnamon sugar. Drop the balls into a buttered Bundt pan.
Drizzle remaining butter over the top and sprinkle with remaining cinnamon sugar.
Bake until golden brown, about 40 minutes. Remove and let cool 5 minutes.
Place a plate on top of the pan and carefully flip it over. Tap the bottom to release the bread. (I let the pan rest on top of the plate for a while so the bread would disengage by itself.)
Let people pull the bread apart with their fingers.
Wednesday, November 28, 2007
Santa photos
The Latina/o Law Students Association has recruited Prof. Schnapper to play Santa Claus for photos next Wednesday. Apparently he’ll be all dressed up as the jolly old elf, complete with a festive, Latino-inspired backdrop. LLSA will take your photo with a digital camera and email it to you, and/or you can bring your own camera. LLSA will email you the photo they take. LLSA is asking for a $3 donation, but apparently everyone actually gives $5.
Money raised will benefits LLSA’s outreach programming for disadvantaged students.
Here’s the info:
Wednesday, December 5, 2007
2:30 to 4 p.m. in Gates Hall, Room TBA
UWLS Main Hallway
Email Rosario Daza, rdaza@... for more information.
Law School Stress talk
Benjamin is a pretty thorough critic of the law school pedagogy. "We create cynical, angry, hostile folk," he said. Law school undermines professionalism and health, he said, because it:
* negates healthy values such as intimacy and community
* promotes unhealthy values, such as valuing external rewards, status and comparative worth
* substitutes competition and anxiety for healthy motivation such as personal enjoyment and values-based effort
* Habituates students to frustration of fundamental needs, such as health routines, self esteem, relatedness, authenticity and security.
Solutions:
Address health and social issues:
* solid sleep, eating, exercising patterns
* Social support
* Knowledge of signal emotional states – result in activation of wellness behaviors
* Balance struck in all areas of life
* Any two of four conditions above absent, seek assistance from Sandra, SBA, Mentors
Minimize unnecessary excessive stress:
* Eliminate habitual overwork
* Abandon zero-sum competitive “need to win” paradigm, which creates perception of failure for any previously successful students
* Build skills at collaboration and legal counseling.
I know some people are interested in this: Benjamin repeated the observation that he has been criticized for making in orientation sessions: single women tend to be the most negatively affected by law school. Women in relationships tend to survive law school's stresses better. "Romantic involvements are protective," he said. "I’m not joking. Please start dating."
Here are symptoms of depression to look out for:
* mixture of anxiety, depression and hostility
* thoughts of killing self
* feeling so unhappy that you cannot shake it
* dissatisfied or bored with most aspects of life
* nicotine use (the most efficient anti-dysphoric on the legal market)
* disruptive sleep – never feeling sufficiently rested (early waking, inability to fall asleep)
* increased social isolation
* limiting normal exercise patterns
If you have more than two of these for more than a couple of weeks, he said, get counseling.
The session covered more ground, including many very specific questions from students. Also, all these lists came from his powerpoint, which had cites for studies that were the sources of the info. If you want the notes or the powerpoint, email me.
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Diversions
In case you haven’t seen it yet, here’s a link to the now-classic “Landlord” video with Will Ferrell. Caution: if you don’t like seeing 2-year-olds swear, you might not like it. Oh, come on, it’s totally worth it.
http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/74
Here’s a mom’s version of the William Tell Overture:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ati3k32-NXI
(thanks Mary Whisner)
And finally, this is just an amazing wildlife video. This is NOT funny, just amazing. It gets a bit grim about two minutes in, and then gets even grimmer, but the ending is great. It’s called the Battle at Kruger:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LU8DDYz68kM
Managing stress
Stress & Uncertainty: Andy Benjamin on Balance During Law School.
As the end of the quarter fast approaches, many of us find ourselves getting caught up in the stresses of preparing for exams, doing job searches, and dealing with other life demands. Join us for a lunchtime talk with Andy Benjamin about dealing with law school stressors and gaining better perspective and balance. The event will take place on Wednesday, November 28, 2007, from 12:30 to 1:20, in Room 118. Lunch will be provided.
Please RSVP if you are planning to attend so we can order enough lunches for everyone. We also welcome specific questions for Andy, which will be presented anonymously. Please send RSVPs and any questions to: lgoldoft@...
Monday, November 12, 2007
Balancing a legal career and childcare
One of the study authors described the results to Law Students Building a Better Legal Profession:
In a nutshell, we find that childcare responsibilities drive much of the differences in income and promotion experienced by men and women lawyers, and that men who miss paid work to do childcare experience the same disadvantages as women who miss paid work to do childcare. We also find that both more men and more women lawyers are missing paid work to do childcare, that they are taking longer absences from paid work to do childcare, and they are working less hours after they return to their careers.
Some of our less systematic, but more curious findings are that: in part male lawyers earn more than women lawyers because they are more interested in income than the woman lawyers; women who have kids but who do not miss paid work to do childcare are more likely to be in private practice and be a partner than women without kids, even though women without kids work more hours; and women who miss paid work to do childcare have significantly higher LSAT’s and GPA’s than women who don’t miss paid work to do childcare.
Law Students Building a Better Legal Profession
Law Students Building a yada yada is a Stanford-based student group. They recently published a post I'm rather fond of. It's sort of a manifesto on the group's goals. Here's an excerpt:
Law students at the nation’s top schools are valuable assets for firms. Ask
managing partners what their top priorities are for ensuring the continued
success of the firm, and almost all will tell you that recruitment of the very
best young associates is absolutely critical. Top schools are producing far
fewer graduates than firms need to fill their ranks. This is why large firms
have massive budgets for finding, wooing, hiring and retaining law students. And
this is why it will matter to firms if some of their best candidates decline
offers out of concern about the environment they are about to enter.. . .
[T]he group aims to incentivize the managers of leading firms to make workable choices about billing, hiring, and community involvement.
. . .
Law Students Building a Better Legal Profession understands that law is a demanding profession. It is this, in part, that has attracted many of us to the field. But this is not the only demand we recognize. We choose not to simply set aside the demands of other aspects of our lives. We choose not to work in environments that lack diversity, openness, and a commitment to professionalism and respect.
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Daylight savings, or, I want my hours back
http://seattlepi.nwsource.com/opinion/338554_daylight07.html
He's absolutely right, though his reasons are all wrong. Biannual time changes are hideous. Spring, of course, is obviously a problem: we lose an hour of sleep. Fall, once upon a time, seemed like the better side of the coin, the cool side of the pillow, as it were. But NO! It turns out that when the time changes, the little darlings get up an hour EARLIER. What used to be a 7 a.m. wakeup is now a 6 a.m. wakeup. Logically, you would think that would mean that they would go to bed an hour earlier, yes? No! They do not.
I am not sure where my hour went, but I want to file an appeal. I'm with Prof. Calandrillo, though my reasons may differ. Come to think of it, he has kids....
Nursing news
So, to the point:
Recent research says not to blame breastfeeding for your droopiness. Nope, it's repeated pregnancies or smoking that does it. Nurse away! (So guys, if you have boob droop, quit smoking.) See the story here:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21599854/
p.s. Blame Laura for this post. She said the item would be "interesting to those with boobs and those who love boobs."
p.p.s. What, do you want me to write items about law school security or something? Gimme a break.
Sunday, November 4, 2007
More on Outlining
I take notes in the book before class, writing out any questions in the margin. During class, I take notes on my laptop, using a new Word document for each week. At the end of the week, I print out those notes, read them over, and organize them into outline form. This takes me a LONG time.
Near the end of the quarter (maybe a week before classes end), I go through my longer outline and condense it to a 10-20 page outline. I try to make sure that I understand each key concept as I condense the outline. Like Lisa, I also try to create a short, 2-page outline to take into the exam with me.
Ideally, I finish all of this outlining a week before exams start so that I have the rest of the time to do practice exams. Before my 1L fall exams, I spent so much time on my outlines that I didn't have time to take practice exams, and that was a HUGE mistake. I think it is more important to take lots of practice exams and go over the answers with other classmates than it is to have the perfect outline.
I had Schnapper, Wolcher, and O'Neill during my first quarter -- if anyone wants to see my outlines for those professors, email me at porterc@u.wash
Also, I think Professor Kaltsounis's outlines are the best I've ever seen, and she has great advice about studying for exams. If you couldn't make her outlining session, at least ask if you can take a look at her outlines sometime.
Friday, November 2, 2007
Outlining
Everyone's outline is different. I have a friend who isn't happy unless she has a 70-page, single-spaced outline to take into an exam. I do best when I've managed to condense my outline down to about 15 pages, and also have a two-page version along with me. One friend of mine made an enormous color-coded civil procedure outline with charts and graphs and boxes and lord knows what else.
So, here's my process. (I'll try to get some other 2Ls and 3Ls to describe their system here (any volunteers?)) In 1L year, I would read the material in advance and take notes in outline format, using the structure of the casebook. Then I'd take copious notes during class. Toward the end of the quarter I'd combine my handwritten notes and my outline. Which took forever.
Now my system, if things are going well, is this: At the beginning of the week, I quickly create an outline of the material we'll be covering. Before class, I read that day's material, writing notes into the book if I think I'm going to be called on. During class, I type notes into my outline. At the end of the quarter, as I'm preparing for the exam, I usually can just tighten up the outline I've already created, and find the spots where I'm confused and clarify them. Then my main occupation is synthesizing the info so I can create my 2-page version.
Structuring the outline can be tricky. Usually I just use the structure of the casebook itself, which can be very helpful in orienting myself when I'm feeling lost. But for some professors (see Schnapper) it's more helpful to create the outline based on the syllabus. For other professors it can be a combination of both.
Exam prep
Also the Career Center is having a workshop on resumes and cover letters at 12:30 Nov. 7 in room 133. It's as good a place to eat your lunch as anywhere else.
Superbug!
Well, really, I wasn't particularly worried about the antibiotic-resistant superbug that's been floating around, although a Federal Way man just died of it, but I just ran across a fairly authoritative post on how to avoid catching Superbugs. It's by Nurse William, a blogger I've never heard of, but I like his attitude. Here's a sample of his advice:
ANY old soap is "antibacterial" when used correctly; All you have to do is make
LOTS of suds. Its the suds that make a soap antibacterial. "Really?" you ask.
"How so?" you ask. Well, settle down and I will tell you: Suds form micelles
around dirt and bacteria and lift them from the skin's surface to be rinsed away
to the black hell from whence they came.
The post is at http://nursewilliam.blogspot.com/2007/10/truth-about-mrsa-without-media-panic.html.
Monday, October 29, 2007
Monday, October 22, 2007
Fall Festival this Friday
Nowell has made a special effort to invite faculty, and several faculty members have told him they’re coming and looking forward to it. Come see your profs and their kids!
Please also invite your classmates who don’t have kids. This event is open to all and is a great chance for our kids to meet our buddies and vice-versa.
See you there!
Lisa and Stasiu
p.s. if you’d like to help decorate, I’ll be in the lobby and main hallway after 1:30 on Friday, stringing up ghosts and spreading cobwebs.
Food Friday: pumpkin soup
Pumpkin Velvet Soup
1 pumpkin or other winter squash weighing about 4 lbs
(note! Must be a sugar pie pumpkin, not a decorative pumpkin!)
3 Tablespoons butter
1 large onion, chopped
6 cups chicken stock (or broth, or water and boullion cubes)
1/4 cup orange juice
salt
pepper
nutmeg
1/4 cup heavy cream (optional)
Put pumpkin on a baking sheet and bake at 375 for at least an hour, until soft. Let cool.
Cut pumpkin in half, scoop out strings and seeds and throw away, and scoop flesh into a bowl.
In a large soup pot, saute onion in butter until soft. Add stock, bring to a boil, add pumpkin and simmer until pumpkin is completely soft and heated through.
If you have a hand blender, blend soup until smooth. If you don't have a hand blender, let soup cool, then puree in batches in a blender and return to pot.
Stir in orange juice, cream if desired, and dashes of salt, pepper and nutmeg.
That's the basic recipe. I made it last week with butternut squash and added 1/2 cup sour cream, cayenne pepper and garlic salt. I think you could add a potato to thicken it up, or an apple to give a sweet flavor, or even do a variation with maple syrup. Let me know if you try it out.
Here's how I accomplish soup during the week: Shop one day. Next day, turn on oven at dinner time, throw in pumpkin, take out an hour or two later and let cool, throw in fridge. Next night (or the night after) actually make the soup.
Toxic tots
http://www.cnn.com/2007/TECH/science/10/22/body.burden/index.html
Yeah, I'm headed for the organic section tonight.
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Baby news
Congrats also to 2L Greg Albert, whose second daughter was born during the first week of classes. And to Peter Moreno, whose wife is expecting their second daughter. There are at least four other pregnant 2Ls and 3Ls out there due to give birth during the school year.
Christal Wood, 3L, had a lovely comment this morning:
Congrats, Papa Peter!...and congrats to Ashley, too, whose baby's gonna' have one smart mama! :-)And to everyone else with a degree in the oven.... A thought occurred to me recently while I was struggling with my own hectic schedule, and wondering at how anybody handles the elevated challenge of law school, while raising one or more small children (my kid's a teenager, and I can get away with limited supervision in exchange for a different set of challenges). As an "older" parent, I wanted to remind you what a gift you're giving your children to be taking this step; in modeling perseverance, in (hopefully) an improved and more stable way of life, in the knowledge that you'll inadvertently confer, and in the enhanced protection you'll be able to give them as they navigate their way into tomorrow's society, bound to be governed in some way by an increasingly complex rule of law.Congratulations to everybody for that--here's to you, I raise my coffee cup to you, as I write this, intolerably late for class. :-) Pax. -cw
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Food Friday: fried rice
Fried Rice
1/2 c. oyster sauce
1 Tblsp. soy sauce (plus extra)
1 c. frozen peas
vegetable oil or peanut oil
mushrooms (shitake are best, but button or canned oyster work too)
two chicken breasts
flour
salt
two eggs
hunk of Chinese pork (try the deli section or the bacon section)
2 tsp. minced garlic
2 c. uncooked rice
Start cooking the rice. (If you cook the rice the night before, put in a plastic bag and hit with a wooden spoon to break up the chunks.)
Dump peas in a colander in the sink and spray with water for a minute or two to thaw.
In a small bowl, mix oyster sauce and one tablespoon of soy sauce; set aside.
Heat oil in large frying pan or wok over medium-high heat. When hot, add mushrooms. If you weren't able to get shitakes, add a few splashes of soy sauce to give your shrooms some flavor. Cook, stirring occasionally, until mushrooms are limp. Pour mushrooms out of pan onto a plate.
While the mushrooms are cooking, chop raw chicken into bite sized pieces. Put a handful of flour into a plastic bag, add some salt, and dump in the chicken and shake until coated. Add more oil to the frying pan, let heat, and add chicken. Cook until lighly browned on all sides. Dump onto the plate.
Add a bit more oil and let heat. Lightly stir eggs and pour into frying pan. Let set for 1 minute, then stir and break up until just barely done. Dump onto the plate.
Add a bit more oil and let heat. Chop up Chinese pork into small pieces. Add garlic to frying pan; let cook 30 seconds. Add Chinese pork and peas. Cook 2-3 minutes until heated. Turn off heat.
Add cooked rice to pan.* Pour oyster sauce mixture over rice and stir. Add all other ingredients from the plate and stir.
Notes:
I haven't been able to find fresh shitakes for more than a year! It's driving me nuts. Dried shitakes creep me out for some reason. I've found that adding soy sauce to the mushrooms helps. The original recipe here called for Chinese sausage, which I haven't found, and I think chicken is a healthier alternative anyway.
You can cook the chicken however you want. This is how I've been doing it lately, and it's pretty good, though it takes a bit more time than just plain stir-frying. Easiest is poaching chicken the night before, throwing it in the fridge, and cutting it up cold and adding it with the pork. But that's no fun.
* If you are an overly accommodating, horribly indulgent parent like me, scoop out some of the rice and pork at this point to serve to your children. You're so nice, they don't deserve you.
Firm makes motion based on family time
“These dates [Dec. 18, 19, 20 and 27] are smack in the middle of our children’s winter breaks, which are sometimes the only times to be with our children.”
Some commenters think the firm is being manipulative; others think it should be no skin off anyone's nose just to change the dates by a week or so.
See the law blog post here, which has links to the motion and response:
http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2007/10/09/the-law-blog-pleading-of-the-day-starring-weil-gotshal/
Another WSJ writer checks in with a work-life expert who says this is great progress toward getting the business of law to be more flexible (I'm not convinced):
http://blogs.wsj.com/juggle/2007/10/10/lawyers-ask-to-schedule-hearings-around-kids-calendars/
Congratulations new lawyers!
http://www.wsba.org/lawyers/licensing/summer2007.htm
The Ben tree
The tree planted in Ben's memory is a cedar. It is at the bottom of the stairs by room 138, at the far end of the building. Or if you were to go down the exterior stairs by the cafe, it's on the left side of the path just as you go past the end of the building.
PALS is planning to work on collecting money for the scholarship fund that has been created for Oliver. Look for opportunities to contribute in the future. We'll probably have an envelope at Fall Festival.
PALS board
The PALS executive board is:
Co-presidents Lisa Kremer (kremerl@) and Stasiu Nowak (stasiu@)
Co-VPs Amanda Carmany-Rampey and Christine Porter
Secretary Michael Sterner
Treasurer Lisa Goldoftas
Executive board members are Laura Arras, Peter Moreno, Pat Schaff, Ray Liaw, Peter Santos, Louis Butler, Tami Becker Gomez, Kevin McCrae, Christie Wang and Yin Cheung.
Infant meds recalled
http://www.chpa-info.org/ChpaPortal/PressRoom/NewsReleases/2007/10_11_07_CCMedicines.htm
My understanding is that the infant meds themselves aren't dangerous if properly used, but that there is a danger that parents/caregivers will accidentally give too much.
My cupboards have a lot of these drugs in them -- Tylenol Cold and Dimetapp in particular. They were recommended by our pediatrician. It is hard to know when a decongestant is actually working, though. I am a big fan of plain old Benadryl, Tylenol and Motrin (really, their cheap generic versions).
Tuesday, October 9, 2007
Help out a future parent
I've talked to some of you individually, but I'm putting out a general call for advice over the next few months. I'm a 2L, 18 weeks along with my first child (it's a boy!), due on March 11th. Since my husband and I are the first of our close group of friends to have kids, we'd welcome advice as we start planning for our first little one. Specifically, I have questions about
1) Doulas: Has anyone had one? We're giving birth at Swedish Medical Center, and have a great doctor, but we were wondering if a doula might be helpful. Our parents are coming into town around the birth date, but if the baby decides to come early, we might be on our own here.
2) Child care: We will probably need child care in the summer, when I go to work. Does anyone know of any great places that take infants or have suggestions on how to find/pick a nanny or nanny share?
3) Parenting support groups: What's worth doing? What's extra time that we don't have?
Thanks in advance for the advice!
Vanessa
Thursday, October 4, 2007
Memorial planned for Ben Athay
The school will plant a memorial tree in Ben's honor. I'm sure we'll find out more details about it at the service. The PALS board also has been talking about doing something in Ben's honor, in tune with his joy at being a father and a student. We'll keep you posted.
The press release about Ben and the memorial service are posted here:
http://www.law.washington.edu/News/Articles/Default.aspx?YR=2007&ID=AthayMemorial
PALS meeting on Monday
All are welcome, whether you consider yourself a member of PALS or not. We'll be checking in to see how everyone's doing and if you have any current issues you're concerned about. We'll also tell you about some upcoming events -- be sure to come to the Fall Festival on Oct. 26! And we'll talk about some recent developments in work-life balance issues.
Lunch will be provided!
Sunday, September 30, 2007
The morning dash
Here's the story:
http://blogs.wsj.com/juggle/2007/09/28/the-morning-time-slip/
I try to make the mornings easier for my husband (who gets the kids up, dressed and fed most days) by setting out the kids' clothes and lunches before I leave. I may be depriving them the ability to choose their clothes, but I figure I'm also aiding marital harmony by reducing morning friction. Six/half dozen.
What do you do to make the mornings easier?
Saturday, September 29, 2007
Food Friday: enchiladas
This is a quick recipe that won't win any prizes but it's fast, has few ingredients, and doesn't get too many dishes dirty in the preparation. If you try it out, let me know how it goes. And tell me what you'd serve as a side -- my biggest challenge is finding ways to get kids to eat veggies. We'd probably serve this with pineapple and broccoli.
Super-easy enchiladas
4 cooked skinless, boneless chicken breasts*
1 c. light sour cream
2 c. shredded cheddar cheese**
1 Tablespoon cumin
Salt and pepper to taste
1 package flour or corn tortillas
1 can enchilada sauce
Preheat oven to 350 degrees
Shred or chop the chicken. Mix with sour cream, cheese, cumin, salt and pepper. Add other ingredients as desired (green peppers, cilantro, green onions, etc). Put two big spoonfuls of chicken mixture on a tortilla, roll up and put seam-side-down in a 9x13 pan. Repeat until you get through all the filling. Pour sauce over top. Bake 20 minutes, until heated through.
* For the chicken, you can use breasts, thighs, whatever, and cook by poaching, baking, whatever. Or you could shred a rotisserie chicken. Last time I made this I cut up raw chicken and cooked it on the stovetop, stir-fry style.
** I hate shredding cheese. If it's on sale I buy it shredded. Otherwise I buy the bulk sliced cheese at Costco and cut it into tiny little pieces, which is good enough for me. And a knife is easier to clean than a grater.
Got a recipe to share? Email me! I need stuff for future Food Fridays.
p.s. Yeah I know it's not Friday. I'm a day late. I had a meeting, I got distracted, yada yada.
Monday, September 24, 2007
Law school Q&A
A. Glad you asked. NO! You might be better off if your locker is in one of the secure rooms, but if it’s in a hallway, ha. If it makes you feel better, our crowbar-bearing friends seem to only care about computers. When my locker was broken into, my Top Ramen, Kleenex and BLS worksheets were undisturbed.
Q. Um, where do I eat lunch?
A. 540 students / about 30 seats in the café = not enough seats. There’s a lounge in the library but it’s a hike and you can’t get too loud there. You can eat in the library study rooms but that’s not exactly social. You can make a rush for the nice leather chairs on the upper floors. Enjoy the patio while you can. Then try to get on law review or PacRim, their offices are NICE. Sorry, Shidler.
Q. This is such a posh building… why are there wooden benches in the lobby?
A. My guess is when the dean brings donors to visit, three wooden benches looks better than the previous arrangement: several leather couches continually occupied by, er, socially disadvantaged folks from the Ave. Which is what happened for the first year and a half the building was open, until they gave up and moved the couches upstairs.
Q. Well now that you mention it, what about those guys in the library?
A. Donors can’t see them there.
Q. And while we're talking about creepy things, why does it smell like something died in the first floor ladies room?
A. Sorry about the potty humor, but this one's legit. It's some bizarre permanent building smell. What's really cool is when the state Supreme Court or 9th circuit is in session here, that's probably the loo the women justices use. Yeah! Way to make an impression!
Q. Can I ask 2L and 3L friends for their outlines?
A. Yes! Don’t be shy.
Q. Wait a minute, why should I share notes and outlines? Aren’t we graded on a curve? Isn’t this a competition?
A. Well sure, you’re not likely to be in law school if you’re not competitive, somewhere in your bones. But the true competition – for jobs after graduation – isn’t here at the UW, it’s across town.
Q. Is law school a good time to have babies?
A. Aw c’mon, we’re biased. This is PALS. We love the babies. Bring us more babies.
Top law firms for women
http://www.workingmother.com/web?service=vpage/796
The lead story says it's possible to make partner with children, and has a cheery photo of women lawyers with their kids in a law office. Happy day! But there's also a sidebar on women who leave their jobs -- or the profession -- in seek of greater work/life balance.
The Wall Street Journal's Law Blog has an entry on the survey:
http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2007/08/14/working-lawyer-mothers-give-us-family-yoga-and-volunteering/?mod=sphere_ts
The comments on the blog posting are pretty interesting. One person claims that women who work part time at law firms don't actually do any work, but spend the day web surfing. Others say that it's crazy to work at a law firm if you want to have a life, it's better to find an in-house job or go solo. Because people are allowed to post anonymously they can say whatever they want, and it's interesting to see what people come out and say.
Thanks: Mary Whisner.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Welcome 1Ls!
PALS will grow this year. I know of three 3Ls that will be giving birth during the school year -- Emma Kagel Berry manned the PALS booth for a while today (thanks Emma!) and the others will become apparent sooner or later. Who knows, there may be more.
1Ls, if you haven't found our tipsheet yet, check it out here: http://uwpals.blogspot.com/2007/08/tips-for-1ls.html It includes a link to a pretty long document.
Got any specific questions or concerns? Don't hesitate to email me or Stasiu, or the yahoo group, or post comments or questions here. Good luck!
Monday, September 10, 2007
Thursday, September 6, 2007
Ben Athay
It's hard to accept the death of someone who was so vibrant and had great plans for his life. I met Ben at the 1L family picnic before school last year. His gorgeous wife Alison was pregnant, and Ben was excited both about fatherhood and about starting law school. Alison gave birth in the middle of his first year, and Ben was thrilled with little Oliver. He must have had some long nights, but when I saw Ben he was always cheerful and eager to stop to chat. I ran into him toward the end of the year and asked him to be a board member of PALS and he instantly agreed. At PALS, Ben was thoughtful and funny. He asked that PALS try to be more available to students on a regular basis, because he tended to hear from the group only once or twice a quarter. He felt parents need more support. We created this blog partly to respond to Ben's request for a more frequent, visible form of support for parents. We'll be looking for other ways to respond to his request throughout the year.
PALS sent a bouquet of roses to Ben's funeral. We are looking for other ways to honor Ben and help Alison tell Oliver about his father. Please add your thoughts and suggestions as comments below.
Lisa
More work/life balance news
The King County Bar Association's Bar Bulletin newsletters has two articles involving work/life balance issues. The first is a discussion of how some people prefer the 70-hour-a-week lifestyle, but that it can be hard on marriages:
http://www.kcba.org/scriptcontent/KCBA/barbulletin/archive/2007/07-08/article16.cfm
The article includes the following intriguing line, though it offers no definitive answer:
"So, are those among us who decry the erosion of life balance just whining about a culture that doesn’t include them ... and may, perhaps, be leaving them behind?"
The second article is about how it's important to find fun in your life, even when you're working too hard:
http://www.kcba.org/scriptcontent/KCBA/barbulletin/archive/2007/07-08/article8.cfm
The third article is a list of very specific tips on how to maintain your work life balance. I like it because some of the tips are really concrete. For example, change your email so you get messages when you're ready to check them, instead of the moment they arrive. The list is here:
http://kentblumberg.typepad.com/kent_blumberg/2007/08/top-12-ways-to-.html
Thanks to Mary Whisner for the tips on the KCBA newsletter!
Saturday, September 1, 2007
1L Family Picnic
The PALS picnic is happening on Sunday, September 9 at Cowen Park from 3:30 - 5:30 p.m. Bring your kids, partners, and anyone else who might want to come. We'll be meeting at the picnic tables near the play area. Please bring a snack or a side dish to share. You might also want to bring a blanket to sit on.
Cowen Park is at the corner of NE Ravenna Blvd. and Brooklyn Ave. There should be plenty of street parking available. Click here for more information about the park and some directions (you might have to copy this link into a new window): http://www.seattle.gov/parks/park_detail.asp?ID=483
Hope to see everyone there!
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Part-time options at big law firms
Thanks to Cynthia Calvert of the Project for Attorney Retention for bringing this to my attention. PAR is a project of the Center for WorkLife Law at Hastings, and the fact that they have such a center just makes me want to go there (but do THEY have a remote learning room? huh?). PAR doesn't call it part-time work, by the way: they call it "balanced hours," a term I hadn't heard before. The busy Hastings folks have done a lot of studies about finding ways to make law a more doable profession for those who can't or won't work inhumane hours. There's a lot of information on their site. Here are some of the tidbits I enjoyed:
* Tips for how to work part-time: http://www.pardc.org/LawFirm/tips_for_going_part-time.shtml
* Stories from attorneys who have worked part time: http://www.pardc.org/LawFirm/real_life.shtml
* Links to a zillion work/life resources: http://www.pardc.org/Resources/
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Work-family issues featured at WWL CLE
Hastings is scheduled to talk about something called "balanced hours," which seems to involve putting more value on non-billable hours, though I can't exactly tell.
Hastings will speak at lunch on Sept. 28 at the Bell Harbor Conference Center, which is at Pier 66 in downtown Seattle. Admission to the lunch is $50 for non-members. There are other sessions during the day that sound interesting -- price for the full day is $75 for students.
For more information and registration forms, check http://www.wwl.org/index.php?/weblog/more/2007_leadership_symposium_and_annual_dinner/ and click on the forms. If you want to try to contact WWL to ask if you can volunteer to help (and get out of the $75 cost), links to WWL leaders are on that site.
Thursday, August 16, 2007
Tips for 1Ls
Here's a link to the tip sheet from two years ago: http://students.washington.edu/lawpals/advice.shtml
My tips:
* Chop your books. Take them to a copy place on the Ave, have the bindings cut off and holes drilled, and then you only need to shlep around the pages you're reading that week.
* Share notes. If you notice someone's missing a class, send them notes. You've got kids; you're gonna miss class eventually. It helps if you can foster a cooperative atmosphere.
Fall events
1L Family Picnic: Sept. 9, Ravenna Park near the U-District (more details later). The goal of this picnic is for 1Ls to get to know their classmates who have kids or are thinking of having kids. It's a nice complement to all the beer-oriented get-togethers going on this time of year. 2Ls and 3Ls, please come and share advice and show off how much your kids have grown.
--> please add a comment if you're planning to come, and watch for further updates regarding the time, and a link to a map with directions.
Orientation: 2Ls and 3Ls, let me know if you're going to be on campus Sept. 19 and could staff the PALS table for the organizations fair, 3-5 p.m.
Fall Festival: Thursday, Oct. 25. That's right, a Thursday. Heh heh.
Friday, August 10, 2007
posting options
Friday, July 27, 2007
Job satisfaction test
Given all those disclaimers, it's a pretty interesting self-evaluation, and of course it's always fun to take quizzes. Here's the link:
http://bcgsearch.com/career_audit_tool.php
Thursday, July 26, 2007
Congrats Amanda and Christine!
p.s. Please let me know if I've missed any other parents on the journals or MCHB.
Childcare at the UW
Question: Are there campus childcare centers?
Answer: There are two independently operated childcare centers for UW students located near the University. Both centers are accredited by the National Association for Education of Young Children (NAEYC). There is a waiting list, so parents are encouraged to contact the centers very early. For more information: http://depts.washington.edu/ovpsa/childcare/onsite.html
Question: Where else can I go for childcare information?
Answer: Try the UW main campus Work/Life Office. They maintain information on community-based childcare, can give referrals and run a nanny share network. http://www.washington.edu/admin/hr/benefits/worklife/index.html
Question: Are there lactation stations on campus that I can use?
Answer: Yes, there are several lactation stations across campus that provide privacy for pumping and have hospital-quality, electric double pumps available for use. Call (206) 548-4628 for information and a brief orientation. The list of lactation stations is here: http://www.washington.edu/admin/hr/benefits/worklife/childcare/lactation-stations.html
Question: What is the remote learning room?
Answer: The remote learning room (the “Claire Thomas Room”) is room 219 in Gates Hall and is a limited-access space for law students with young children. The current policy states, “Students seeking access are directed to speak with the Academic Services staff on the 3d floor. The Academic Services staff will ask you to identify the times that you anticipate using the remote learning room. Your Husky card will then be programmed to give you access as approved; the level of access can be adjusted to suit the circumstances. Access will be designated on a quarterly basis, or on an emergency basis. An emergency use might include when a child is sick and can’t go to day care. [Please note however that if a child is too sick for day care we will be relying on the parent’s judgment as to whether the child’s presence might place other infants at risk. Sometimes the best option is to ask Academic Services if the class can be taped.] Some parents may only need access once a week, while others who are pumping milk may need daily access to Room 219. Academic Services will work with each student to address their individual needs. For both privacy and security reasons access to the room is restricted to approved users. This area is intended especially for nursing mothers, but it will accommodate parents who need a place to change diapers, feed babies, or attend to the myriad of chores that face newer parents.”
Question: What features does the remote learning room have?
Answer: The remote learning room has a number of features, including a sink, small refrigerator, microwave, and soft furniture. There are two private rooms designed for lactation purposes. There are four workstations that permit parents with children to listen to and/or watch sessions in the majority of the Gates Hall classrooms. Contact Academic Services for access and information.
Tips from past law student/parents
Some top tips:
Keep school at school.
Don't forget your partner.
Have confidence in yourself.
B=JD.
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Our favorite events
Fall Festival: During fall quarter, we co-sponsor and help organize the Fall Festival. This event welcomes parents and children from the law school and beyond. Students, faculty and staff all are encouraged to bring their children to an afternoon event with costumes, food, an inflatable bouncer castle, and booths sponsored by the law school's most active organizations. Fall Festival is a great way for students to introduce their children to friends, and for children, spouses and partners to see where their parents spend all their time. Those of us who have brought children to the Fall Festival have found that our kids talk about it all year long and feel more comfortable in their understanding of where we go during the day.
Winter clothing drive: We collect new and used clothing, toys and equipment, as well as unperishable food and diapers, to distribute to Childhaven, a Seattle agency that provides daycare and therapy for abused and drug-addicted children aged birth-5 years. Our decision to help Childhaven grew out of the feeling that we are incredibly lucky to have the opportunities we have, and we would like to share our good fortune with others.
Spring work-life balance panel: We invite parent-lawyers in different professional situations to come to the UW to talk about their experiences and the choices they've made in balancing career and family. This is an issue that appeals to many, and it tends to draw more than 100 students every year.
In addition, PALS participates in orientation activities and other law school activities throughout the year. We try to hold monthly casual get-togethers at a coffee shop near the law school, as well as spring sessions on advice for picking classes for the next year.